When I arrived in seminary in 1991 the notorious Human Sexuality Report was, shall we say, hitting the fan. Among other things, The Report, in good liberal fashion, argued that much of the deviant behavior in the homosexual community was due to societal prejudice, which forced underground and thus distorted homosexual relations.
Nonsense, snorted Camille Paglia. She wrote an essay titled "The Joy of Presbyterian Sex" that faulted the Report's authors for being hopelessly repressed. "Gay men don't have anonymous sex in rest area restroom stalls because they're oppressed," she wrote. "They do it because it's fun!" Paglia couldn't stand it that, in the name of liberal tolerance, Presbyterians wanted to turn drag queens and leather clad gay bar bouncers into Ozzie and Harriet.
Now the contrarian in me appreciated the irony of the beleaguered members of the Task Force being forced to suddenly defend their left flank while in full retreat from a vicious attack by everyone to the right of, say, Barney Frank.
But I found myself remembering those old arguments while reading this blog post by anti-liberal (both capital and lower case L) Craig Carter. It reads as if it's been preserved in amber since around the time the Berlin Wall fell. Blessing same sex relationships, says Carter, leads one down a slippery slope toward blessing anything, including, I suppose, "marriages" that expire when one or more of the copulators exits the restroom stall. Most of all, it is a concession to the dread ideology liberalism, which, never mind the fact that it's obsession with proximate causes rather than ultimate causes did lead to some things, like... um... the modern medicine that's twice now saved my firstborn's life, is altogether evil.
Now we have engaged in something of a grand experiment with the human family since 1960 or so. No fault divorce, teen pregnancy, abortion on demand, easy access to birth control, "swinging," equal rights for women (including ordination) and gay rights.
A lot of these are in full retreat. Divorce rates have flattened. So has teen pregnancy. Swinging happens on Desperate Housewives, but for us to mock, not emulate.
Yet society (and some Christian denominations) seem to be pressing ahead with blessing same sex relations. Carter's argument is something of a relic of a time when, except for Paglia, you tended to lump all these changes together and lay a pox on all of them.
Carter has a PhD, as he mentions to us in the post, so he really ought to know better. In the last 15 years, gay rights advocates haven't fought tooth and nail for the bathhouses to be re-opened in San Francisco, or for tax deductions for the cover charges. They've fought for the right to get married. They want in on an old, traditional, conservative arrangement. Yes, they and their liberal, Presbyterian allies are really quite as uptight as Paglia lamented. And that's a good thing. If Carter hasn't come across a single gay rights supporter who deplores adultery and heterosexual promiscuity, then he hasn't looked very hard. Rather than ranting against "liberalism," perhaps Carter ought to have a conversation or two with, you know, real live liberals.
Two other comments. Blessing same sex relationships isn't a capitulation to the great liberal boogeyman. It's trying to make sense of credible testimony, both from the scientific community and from gay and lesbian people themselves, in light of scripture. That may mean turning away from the heretofore go-to texts like Romans 1:26-7, and turning to Isaiah 56:4. This is not unlike the move early Christians had to make, turning from traditional Messianic texts to others, such as Isaiah 52-3 to make sense of their experience of the crucified and risen Jesus.
Clearly, not everyone is going to go along with this. Some may find the testimony less than credible. Others may find no safe quarter within the canon to validate the testimony, regardless of its credibility. But please, let's not simply dismiss the other side without a hearing as libertines, gnostics, Arians, liberals or whatever your ideological bete noir is.
Lastly Carter writes,
Once homosexual "marriage" is well-established, "group marriage," "open marriage" and other deviant forms of so-called "marriage" will be promoted by small, well-organized lobby groups which will flaunt their victim status and demand equal treatment before the law.
This is insulting. It implies that the gays and lesbians are crying wolf, "playing the race card" in the gender arena to use a nasty metaphor--that gay protests of discrimination are somehow less serious than they're made out to be.
Look, anyone who's ever attended a youth group meeting or a high school football game should know that gay teenagers are among the most reviled people on the planet.
It doesn't get much better in adulthood. Married men who hit on unwilling women get told to get lost. Matthew Shepherd hit on a guy whom he thought was gay, and Shepherd got crucified to a fence post. Was Shepherd "flaunting his victim status" when, the next morning, passers-by mistook him for a Scarecrow?
I think he was a victim.
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